About Christian Singles Connect

Supporting the Local Church

We are not a church

1) The local church is the 'Family of God' where marrieds, singles, young, and old can all connect. All of us need a church family!

2) The local church is God's primary plan for stewarding and spreading the Gospel of Christ.

3) Many singles desire a place outside of Sunday mornings, to pursue dating towards marriage, to enable their focus at Church to be solely worshiping Christ and serving others.

This is how we serve the church

- by being Christ-like and not a church.

Click here for free church resources!

For Conferences or a 4-8 week course

I have content to serve ages 18 yrs to 50's+

Help the singles in your church feel loved, heard and specifically cared for - with or without putting the label 'single' on it.

I am also available to train Church staff

Are your staff encountering questions that are hard to navigate in both practical and biblical ways? Are you struggling to help your single members feel more a part of your church family? Let me help!

Supporting the local church

Free Resources!

Free resources for churches:

Article: Serving Christian Singles in the Church– Without Using the Word ‘Single’

Free videos on serving Christians Singles in the church here.

Site overview video for pastors here.

This site's view on sex/living together before marriage

And though we like to work with local churches, we are not affiliated with any one church or denomination, as staying independent helps us to serve more singles in the Body of Christ- which is what we feel called to do.

We are the 2026 version of 'Old fashioned' groups of Christian friends volunteering in the community and spending time together, starting as friends and then, for those who wish it, falling in love.

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Feel free to email me at Rebekah@ChristianSinglesConnect.org

God bless!

Marrieds &/or Pastors Here to Serve?

Thank you for wanting to serve!

We have spaces that are exclusively for men or women where a married woman would be able to only connect with other women on the site and a married man would be invited into spaces only with other men.

This can help for leading devotionals, bible studies and prayer.

Additionally, if your church chooses to have a 'Church space' on our site, a married couple could serve in 'just your church space' and contact only singles at your church on our site.

We work hard to be careful to protect and honor our married couples. We value the support you bring!

Serving Christian Singles!

We are not an online dating site!

We are a Christian singles community of group-based events and volunteer activities.

All singles are welcome here, those seeking singleness as a calling, those new to the area and only seeking friendship, those seeking career networking with other Christian singles, and those already dating! If you are a Christian over 18, and not married, you are welcome here!

Make time for relationships!

God cares about you!

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Walking the Line!

We appreciate your prayers to stay balanced and true to our mission!

This ministry lives in the tension of putting Christ and community first while recognizing that over 70% of our members deeply desire to have a Christian marriage and raise a family.

In addition, Christian singles often desire a place, outside of Sundays mornings, to pursue dating towards marriage, as so many wish to keep their focus at Church fully on worshiping Christ and serving others.

It's why we support both friendship and dating on our site - in direct clear ways - because the world is willing to 'provide options' but we want a Christian space where Christian singles can land instead.

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Our members typically come from the following church backgrounds:

Baptist, Presbyterian, Non-denominational, Charismatic (Vineyard, Assemblies of God, etc.), the Evangelical Covenant Church, Methodist, and similar denominations.