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Now is the time to serve Christian singleS

Our Statement of Faith & Free Resources

Statement of Faith


The organization defines Christianity as belief in:


  • Jesus Christ as God’s only Son and one with God and the Holy Spirit. (Gen 1:26, Mathew 28:18-20, John 1:1-5, John 10:30)


  • The trinity: Jesus Christ/God/Holy Spirit are the highest authority and only true God. (Isaiah 45:5, Exodus 20:3)


  • The Judeo-Christian Bible is the highest and only correct religious/spiritual text. (2 Timothy 3:16-17, Mathew 24:35, Romans 15:4)


  • Salvation is through faith in Jesus Christ and his taking our sins upon himself, and providing forgiveness, though his death on the cross and resurrection. (1 Peter 2:24, Romans 3:25-26)


  • Salvation is based on God’s grace alone, but is shown through lives of Christ-like actions and love. (Gal 5:22-23, Eph 2:9-11)



There has never been a better time to serve Christian singles!

Over 35% of Christian adults are single & 40-50% of the unchurched adults in your neighborhood are single.


Learning how to serve Christian singles well also prepares the church in how to reach 40%-50% of non-Christian adults with the message of Christ.


God loves marrieds, singles, & the lost!


White church with a tall steeple on a green field under a clear blue sky.

Supporting the Local Church

We are not a church


1) The local church is the 'Family of God' where marrieds, singles, young, and old can all connect. All of us need a church family!


2) The local church is God's primary plan for stewarding and spreading the Gospel of Christ.


3) Though we like to work with local churches, we are not affiliated with any one church or denomination, as staying independent helps us to serve more singles in the Body of Christ.


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Our members typically come from the following church backgrounds: 


Baptist, Presbyterian, Non-denominational Evangelical, Charismatic, Methodist, and similar denominations.


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We have lots of ways for singles, marrieds, church staff and others to volunteer with us!


Feel free to email the founder, Rebekah Boulet Kerstetter, at Rebekah@ChristianSinglesConnect.org


Free resources for the church!


Article: Serving Christian Singles in the Church– Without Using the Word ‘Single’


Videos:


Simple ways to help singles find your church


This site's view on sex/living together before marriage (Spoiler alert: It's wrong)


Building Community For Singles Part 1


Building Community for Singles Part 2


A Balanced Way to Support Dating in the Church


Folding Singles into the church


10 minute recap of the shorter videos above!


 Site overview for pastors here. 


Feel free to email the founder at Rebekah@ChristianSinglesConnect.org


Serving Christian Singles

Serving Christian Singles!

We are not an online dating site!


We are a Christian singles community of group-based events and volunteer activities.


All singles are welcome here, those seeking singleness as a calling, those new to the area and only seeking friendship, those seeking career networking with other Christian singles, those seeking to date towards marriage (those of the opposite gender), and those already dating but still here for friendship! If you are a Christian over 18, and not married, you are welcome here!


Make time for relationships!


God cares about you!


What about dating?

What about dating?

We are not an online dating site!


We are a Christian singles community of group-based events and volunteer activities.


Some of our members have no desire to ever marry.


About 80% or more of our members to wish to be married one day and riase a family.


Thus, we host events for same-gender friendships as well as opposite gender dating for those seeking marriage.


All members must first start in our community site to build friendships before being able to join the dating space. Still, there is no direct messaging on our site - only group events for old-fashioned connections.


All as a not-for-profit.



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Help the singles in your church feel loved, heard and specifically cared for - with or without putting the label 'single' on it.

I am also available to serve Church staff!

Are your staff encountering questions that are hard to navigate in both practical and biblical ways? Are you struggling to help your single members feel more a part of your church family? Let me help!


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