
We are not a church
1) The local church is the 'family of God' where marrieds, singles, young, and old can all connect. All of us need a church family!
2) The local church is God's primary plan for stewarding and spreading the Gospel of Christ.
3) Singles have said they are more likely to visit a local church if there is someone they know who they can sit with at the service. Our group helps to connect singles who are looking to visit a local church with other singles to go with! We also offer churches free resources!
4) Many singles desire to keep their Sunday morning worship time fully focused on Christ. By being an independent Christian resource, we give singles a godly setting to pursue marriage where - and if break-ups happen - there is minimal to no impact to their local church family.
This is our calling,
Free resources for churches:
Article: Serving Christian Singles in the Church– Without Using the Word ‘Single’
Free videos on serving Christians Singles in the church here.
Site overview video for pastors here.
This site's view on sex/living together before marriage
And though we like to work with local churches, we are not affiliated with any one church or denomination, as staying independent helps us to serve more singles in the Body of Christ- which is what we feel called to do.
We are the 2026 version of 'Old fashioned groups of Christian friends volunteering in the community and spending time together, starting as friends and then, for those who wish it, falling in love.
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Ways we support the local church:
1) For Singles who wish to remain single, our ministry is a strong place of community and support for them.
2) We offer free consults on customizing programming at your church to reach Christian singles well - without more money, more staff or significant additional time.
3) We will offer our materials for free to churches who wish to provide a study on 'singleness and pursuing marriage as a Christian.' We approach these topics with biblical wisdom (not arbitrary 'rules' or definite 'right or wrong' opinions (other than God's truth about sex after marriage). The Bible gives wisdom for all relationships (such as gentleness, honesty, having a consistent prayer life and having mentors). We mix in some practical tips - but do not teach any 'theology' such as 'the role of women in marriage vs. men' etc. - we leave that in the capable hands of churches.
Thank you for your time and care for the Christian singles in your congregation!
Feel free to email us with questions or for support at Rebekah@ChristianSinglesConnect.org

Thank you for wanting to serve!
We have spaces that are exclusively for men or women where a married woman would be able to only connect with other women on the site and a married man would be invited into spaces only with other men.
This can help for leading devotionals, bible studies and prayer.
Additionally, if your church chooses to have a 'Church space' on our site, a married couple could serve in 'just your church space' and contact only singles at your church on our site.
We work hard to be careful to protect and honor marriage and married couples. We value the support you bring.
Please note that some of our singles prefer to live a life of singleness. We support all Christian singles here.
To learn more &/or have a unique account created just for serving, contact Rebekah@ChristianSinglesConnect.org
You can also watch a quick demo of our site here.

We are not an online dating site!
We are a Christian singles community of group-based events and volunteer activities.
All singles are welcome here, those seeking singleness as a calling, those new to the area and only seeking friendship, those seeking career networking with other Christian singles, those already dating! If you are a Christian over 18, and not married, you are welcome here!
Join for free or $5/mo. Your choice!
We keep costs low because this is a ministry!
This ministry lives in the tension of putting Christ and community first while recognizing that over 70% of our members deeply desire to have a Christian marriage and raise a family.
In addition, Christian singles sometimes desire a place, outside of Sundays mornings to do so, as so many wish to keep their focus at Church mostly on worshiping Christ and serving others.
It's why we support both friendship and dating on our site - in direct clear ways - because the world is willing to 'provide options' but we want a Christian space where Christian singles can land instead. We appreciate your prayers to stay balanced and true to our mission!
Church resources:
How to Serve Singles at Church without using the word Single
This site's view on sex/living together before marriage
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